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And before I get dumped on. A couple of disclaimers. (1) I'm sure men do this stuff, too. (2) I'm obviously not that good a catch or else I'd already be married, but I'm not overweight or physically unattractive. (3) I was very careful to always be considerate and accommodating to these girls and to NOT misrepresent myself on my profile or elsewhere.
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Yeah, the OkCupid change at the end of 2017 was a huge bummer. There's one thing I don't get though: how the fuck are thegirls getting laid if online dating has become so hard? If it's "hard", that's another way to say "the girls are picking very few men, overall". It makes me wonder if this is fully explained just by the fact young women are vastly outnumbered by the wider age range of guys going after them (doubt it: it can't be much worse than 5:1 or 10:1 at most), or women are just not getting laid much nowadays, or there's a new andbig market other than online dating.
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Ignore those rules about waiting three days to get in touch. If you want someone, you have nothing to lose by letting them know. If they're interested, they'll be glad that you called. If they're not interested, at least you'll understand -- and you can move on to the next date.
This week, I came across two resources on internet dating that piqued my interest. First, a book by the founder of eFlirt Expert, Laurie Davis, known as Love at First Click. The second was a Wall Street Journal article called "Hacking the Hyperlinked Heart. " Both are about online dating strategy. They're Local Slutz based on loads of personal experience and gobs of study.
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In 2011, the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center received 5,600 complaints from victims of so-called "romance scammers" - criminals that scan online dating sites, chat rooms and social networking websites for potential victims. The victims reported collective losses of $50.4 million, which is likely only a portion of the real losses since many victims are too ashamed to file a report, the FBI said.
If you're new to be totally authentic, then this is a fantastic time to practice. You have no investment in this individual so you are free to be you, possibly for the first time ever. It's a fantastic feeling when you don't give a shit about impressing anyone.
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